Do you ever feel that sometimes it's really hard to maintain a relationship ? With whoever: your spouse, parents, siblings, children, relatives, friends, even to your working colleagues. It is not that easy to deal with another human being, right ? For we all have differences in way of thinking, perspective and values on how seeing things, and even on what we feel about one thing. It takes two to tango ! It can not be only one side who need to perform, but it takes the other side to also deliver. When there is an action, then you can find a response.
We all are so fragile. Easily break into pieces ! Furthermore, human are complex, and because of those thing, we can just easily hurt each-other. By our ego, our words, and our action. We break each-other's heart, and leave the open wound. It breaks the relationship. And when it happened, it's not that easy to forgive and forget..., and bring back the vessel as it used to be. But we must force ourselves to keep practicing on it, to forgive and to forget ! As it's the only way to have a peaceful mind and life.
Today, one relationship may be broken. But here I am telling to my self: don't cry and don't have bitterness. For bad things sometimes happen for a good purpose. God may wants me to learn a lesson. Sometimes HE has to break us down and shake our perfect little world in order to build back up stronger and better than where we were with HIM before. I am here just try to accept this thing, and thanks HIM for HE knows my limitations and will not push me a step further than I can go !
6 comments:
ya..ya.. ya..!
hm, bagaimana saya berkomentar ya mbak?
ada sebuah hubungan yang terjalin atau terjalani tidak seperti yang kita kehendaki atau bayangkan. saya sepakat, sebuah hubungan harus dibangun oleh kedua belah pihak. membangunnye bukan hal gampang. dari menentukan wujud akhir, membuat fondasi, menetapkan estimasi, menetapkan rancang bangun, hingga mengisinya dengan pernik-pernik, itu tidak mudah.
kadang, cinta saja tidak cukup! proses hubungan ini, lebih membutuhkan komunikasi, toleransi dan tentu bargaining.. dan ini, tidak hanya berlaku untuk pasangan, tetapi bisa saja hubungan pertemanan, persaudaraan, ikatan keluarga, orangtua-anak, dan lain sebagainya..
gimana menurut Mbak Lia?
benar, hezra. seringkali saya merasa begitu susah mempertahankan suatu hubungan, dengan teman, saudara, rekan kerja, atau siapapun, termasuk pasangan. seringkali kita merasa sudah melakukan dan mengupayakan yang terbaik untuk membina dan menjaga suatu hubungan, tapi pihak lain begitu mudah take it for granted, yang pada akhirnya membuat runyam suatu hubungan.
katanya sih, kuncinya ada pada komunikasi. tetapi seringkali komunikasi saja tidak cukup. perlu ada tekad, kemauan yang sama, untuk saling menjaga suatu hubungan. dan juga toleransi, spt yang kamu bilang.
Intinya: segala sesuatu yang menyangkut hubungan dengan manusia lain,....memang tidak mudah ! :D
emang when it comes to relationship everything become complicated...
nyahahahaha.....
just like us and the other human being....complicated hehehe
retrira, apa kabarrrr ???? :D
Meski patah hati, harus tetap bersemangat!
mbak eka, engga patah hati kok...cuma lagi merasakan letihnya membina suatu hubungan dengan manusia lain....:D
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